Kaifee Anwer

Every one Thinks of changing the World…..But no one thinks of changing himself

This harsh truth is the reality of the world. Since my childhood, I also worried about the whole world. I wanted to change the world, but it is less than 5% concern to change myself. Today when I saw this thought on the Orkut profile of Shahbaz, suddenly I realized it. Although I knew it for last few year, but never given a deep thought regarding it. Today I analyzed it, what actually happens. The society from where I belong, people talks a lot but don’t implement it on him at first. The same culture is adopted by me as well. I lost the focus to change myself. I devoted more time to change the world. So neither I changed myself nor did I change the world.

Our society is very good in terms of cooperation and meetings. But hardly have I found anyone who talks about himself. It is limited till primary education, when we give our introduction that I want to become an engineer or doctor etc. As we grow with some a little knowledge and education, we try to change the world. The ratio of work towards self development goes down as we are growing. This is reverse, what actually we should do. When we get more responsibility and an urge to change the World, We need to work more on changing ourselves. There is a lack in self introspection. Recently our management has started the weekly review of the tasks. I found it is a good way to realize ourselves. We can find out, what changing we require. In our country every one criticizes on others, but no one fulfill his responsibilities.

There is no leader, who has changed the world without changing himself. The example of Mahatma Gandhi is a perfect example of it. Older ones want a lot of rules to be followed by his younger. They want to change them various ways which may not be correct. I have seen people doing the same mistakes or bad habits; don’t want to be done by his younger. They fail to make change. The majority of the problems are due to not changing himself. If everyone thinks about himself, then there is no change required for others.